Bismillahirrahmanirrahim , Assalamualaikum wbt I bid to all people out there , Salam Jumaah ^_^ and before I lost my words , please take note that 10th of Muharram is on Saturday, 24th of November 2012 :) It is sunnah to fast for 2 days (either 9/10 Muharram or 10/11 Muharram)!
So don't forget to fast to get awesome *rewards from Allah! Do remind your beloved family members and friends too! ♥
The Prophet (pbuh) said: “Fasting on the day of ‘Asyura, I hope will be an expiation of sins for the year before” (Hadith Muslim)
Hmmm , actually , with my humbleness heart , I would like to invite you to read this sweet and mesmerized article. I did posted it yesterday on my Facebook acc. But , I think it just to sweet to read. So I want to post it here anyway and again. Happy reading , and I hope u get something from it :)
First scene
Have you ever experienced a nightmare of losing a person you really love? How much did you cry then? And when we are suddenly awaken; we look for that person and enjoy and appreciate his being.
Second scene
You visit a doctor and he asks you for a check-up; when you show the results and he says that you would be alive only for a few months; you feel something strange in yourself. You decide to be kind, passionate, patient, forgiving and in these left days. Then we know the value of our health much better and hope we could get back to those days we were ok.
Third scene
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Last scene
An old couple was living together; the man was always complaining of his wife snoring; but the woman never believed in what he said and imagined he is just bringing excuses to leave the bed. One day, the man decided to prove her snoring so he prepares a recording device and record all the noise she was making while sleeping. Next morning he was happily awaken to prove himself by evidences he had collected. But the woman was sleeping deeply forever; she had passed away just the last night. Now the recorded snoring of his beloved wife is the only lullaby by which he goes to sleep.
Some times in life we experience things like this. There is a saying that ''we only value what we have, when it is lost.'' If we become aware that the relations among people are bridges that our behavior might ruin them; definitely then we would care much more as we know these bridges if burnt, might never be repaired.
Unlimited appreciation and love are two greatest powers that exist in this world; when we daily show that we put value of having each other, even by presenting a smile or a warm word; we in fact welcome blessings and good things in our life.
As we see and contact with our family daily; we forget to appreciate their being and that we should thank them and know their values.
We forget that for those moments that we were alone, a friend fill in our loneliness and his/her voice becomes a painkiller for us.
We forget that somebody out of nowhere, too our hands and helped us; we forget to appreciate these blessings...
We can thank for these things we have in our life; for a present, from a friend and his presence, for the beauties of nature, for silence and peace we have, for a person we newly met, for love, etc. the more thankful we are, the more reasons we find to thank.
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) says:
The best of pious men are those who associates with people and the one who is not like this has no blessing
When you are appreciated, you become happy and ready to help more. So, if you have a child, let him know that you are thankful of him. Sometimes parent thank their children to be a part of their life. Couples should thank each other, and children should appreciate their parents who shared their life with them. Let's thank all of those we know and let them know how much we value their beings in our life.
There is a direct connection between Families who show their appreciations and those who are always together emotionally and physically. Teenagers who have confidence are those who are appreciated more because they have learnt to respect their own value. Also spouses who are appreciated, love their partner more and respect him or her better and deeper. That's also true about brothers and sisters who share a house while they grow, after getting dependent and separated they know each other's value more and care about it.
No doubt that a reason to social cohesion is the time we spent for each other.
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| They are so sweet rite ? May Allah grant us everlasting happiness with our spouse till Jannah ^_^ |
If we all know these points; why do we do nothing to value our minutes and we lose it easily? Let's take an action it's time to appreciate life.
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